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Marriage Communication - How To Improve The Communication In Your Marriage
By Steven Ross
It's a fact -- successful marriage communication is required for a healthy relationship. In fact, research has shown that the quality of a couple's marriage can best be predicted by the communication the couples has before the marriage has occurred. If you are looking for strategies to enhance your marriage communication, then you have come to the right place.
| In this article, I will give you some specific strategies and things to consider, to take your marriage communication to the next level. There's no way around it -- in any marriage, differences are going to arise. The fact is, the differences aren't the problem. Inadequately resolving those differences is the problem.
So marriage communication really revolves around how to effectively solve differences in the relationship.
So what is good communication? It's when what you speak is received by your listener in the same way you intended it to be. This means that your motives is understood, your body language isn't misinterpreted, and the words themselves are accepted exactly as they are spoken. |
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The highest form of communication takes place when all of those things have been achieved.
Let me give you an example of when those elements are missing. A husband might say to his wife, "you are not taking this seriously". What the husband was referring to was that his wife wasn't taking action, and that was how he was measuring her seriousness. However, the wife might interpret not being serious with not caring. The speakers intention wasn't properly understood by the listener.
Effective communication also involves the ability to resolve conflicts, when they occur. Poor conflict resolution skills happen when past arguments are continually brought up to make a point, when one or both parties are stubborn, when over reacting takes place and emotions cloud judgment, resulting in crying, shouting or yelling. Also, when one side tries to win an argument instead of come to a solution, when one partner continually interrupts the other partner, and when either partner becomes overly defensive.
Avoid these things if you're trying to resolve your conflicts.
In conclusion, I have given you some pointers to ponder about marriage communication. Also, I have supplied you some information on what helps marriage communication, as well as what to stay away from so your marriage communication doesn't suffer. Remember, a marriage is only as successful as a quality of its communication!
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